There are too many times that I see women wanting their so called “friends” to fail. Why? Why do so many women let their obsession with degrading other women control their days? This happens on social media. The halls of work or school. The gym. At restaurants. Commenting on someone you don’t know as if they are some sort of object for you to compare yourself to.
Why aren’t we building each other up? Does it really make us feel better about ourselves to make someone look bad? Who cares that Sally has enough confidence to wear something “too low cut” “too tight” “the wrong color”. If you aren’t confident enough or it isn’t a style that you prefer, so be it. You don’t have to wear it.
I see so many of my friends and acquaintances doing amazing things. All I want is for them to be successful. I want them to be happy, healthy, strong, prosperous, radiant women.
Even these women that seem so strong and put together have weaknesses or doubts. We need people to talk to; to rely on as confidants. But this only happens when we stop talking poorly about each other and just be good people. If we can’t rely on our “friends,” who do we go to?
Ladies, let’s help each other find happiness, health, and passion to pursue the things that light our souls on fire.